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When your source of happiness is another human being, you’re totally screwed.
Gabrielle Bernstein: How to Release Romantic Fears
The ego convinces you that all the love you need is in one “special” person — you come to believe you need this one special person to feel whole.
This fear-based thinking leads you to do whatever it takes to make that special person happy so that they don’t leave. You become inauthentic and subservient so that you don’t lose your special relationship. You put the needs of others in front of your own and deny your true feelings.
